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  • Passover: the First Cup

    haggadahPassover comes after Purim and is my favorite holiday, since it celebrates a successful slave revolt. Whether that revolt actually happened is irrelevant; what matters is that the Passover legend shaped the consciousness of the Jewish people and was adopted by other people struggling to liberate themselves—most notably African slaves in the United States. The book that is used to walk you through the service on Passover is called a haggadah. There is no one correct haggadah—there are probably thousands of different versions of this book. Like many of my generation, I was inspired to write a non-traditional haggadah. Aunt Lute Books published it, and you can obtain it through them at http://store.auntlute.com/Current-titles/Haggadah-p192.html .

    During the service, you drink four cups of wine. Here’s what I wrote for the first cup:

    For the mother who gleaned in the fields
    back bent under the weight of the sun
    shoving off those who would
    snatch an ear of grain from her
    bleeding hands, feet bleeding into
    thick dust, for the sake of a handful
    of ears of grain short of stalk and
    empty of kernels, for the sake of a mouthful
    of bread for her children;

    for the mother who conjured up
    nourishment from weeds and the parts
    of a pig that the master cast aside,
    for the mother bending over her
    own swelling belly to pick cotton
    whose back dripped blood,
    whose breasts could only drip prayers
    for the children auctioned away;

    for the mother who snatched up
    her children and hid in the forest
    till the pogrom was over, till
    her hands were blue as the snow
    and the ashes that had been her home
    were cold, till day broke over
    the frozen body of her newborn son;

    for the mothers who hid their
    children in cellars or convents
    for the mothers who carried their
    children across borders with
    bombs falling behind them;

    for the mothers picking coffee or planting rice
    cleaning toilets or sewing sneakers
    or soldering silicon chips;
    for the mothers who work two shifts
    to buy books as well as bread
    for their children; we drink.

    Blessed is the fruit of the vine
    and the earth and the sun and the rain,
    and the hands that planted and pruned.
    Blessed are the mothers who gave us life and
    sustained us, and whose labor enabled us to
    reach this occasion.